You missed our wild days and we're settled down now. We've learned a lot from our previous relationships.
It's not like a guy who's five years older than you is going to be taking you out for the Denny's early bird special ever day before promptly going to bed, but odds are those 5 a.m. We can still drink people under the table, we just don't want to do it at some crappy, crowded dive bar. We don't want to be shoving our way through a bunch of sweaty people to get them. You're going to hear stories about "the old days" and wonder why we aren't as fun anymore. All right, so no one knows what they want, but we've got a job, if not a career, and some money saved up, because we already did that thing where you spend all your money and then have no money.7.
Every time you go to a restaurant, the staff will glare at you both — him for being shallow and you for being a gold digger.
This may not be the case, but whether it is or not, taking on daily public scrutiny like this is no picnic.
If you want to wait to have a kid until you’re in your early 30s, your older man is going to be about 50.It will happen a whole lot earlier for him than it will for you, so you’ll get jealous of his increased free time while he’ll start demanding more of your attention to fill up his long, empty hours, even though you’re still an occupied professional.You’re already going to have elderly parents to deal with as the years progress.You will be a lot less likely to worry about money and stability since your man has had years more than you to figure this stuff out.Two people attempting to make their way in the world and struggling financially in a relationship is one person too many.What could be more uncomfortable than having people mistake your husband for your father?