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Some of the specific challenges I identified were: So I founded Practical Its purpose: to instigate a national conversation about how to make courtship more practical. Then couples who did get married through courtship started getting divorced.When my grandmother dated in middle school (yes, middle school) her parents had one primary rule for her.The Primary Dating Rule: Don’t go out with the same guy twice in a row. She explained that the lack of exclusivity helped them guard their hearts and kept things from getting too serious too quickly. The lack of exclusivity helped the girls guard their hearts and kept the boys from feeling entitled to the girl.But here are the elements most conservative communities have in common: My grandmother grew up in a marginally Christian community.People went to church on Sunday, but that was the extent of their religious activity.So what on earth were they doing that worked so well?

Readiness can become a carrot on a stick, an ideal that can never be achieved.

” my grandmother wondered every time the topic came up. They both obstinately held to the position that courtship was a foolish idea. As I grew older, I started to speak at homeschool conferences and events.

I talked with homeschool parents, students and alumni all over the country and started to see some challenges with making courtship work.

Marriage will always be a bit like jumping into a pool of cold water.

A humble realization that you are not ready and in need of God’s help may be the more healthy way to start a marriage.

I grew up as a member of the homeschool community back when we were hiding from the cops and getting our textbooks from public school dumpsters.

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