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This inevitably impacts your vibe, you become a parasite of sorts and everyone you come into contact with is simply a means to an end.When you meet a guy who makes you feel OK, your need for that feeling becomes overwhelming and you latch on forcefully.QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?You begin interacting with the thoughts in your head rather than with the person in front of you.You know how sometimes you’ll go to take a sip of water and you literally can’t stop chugging?You didn’t even realize you were thirsty, it’s only when you begin to quench the silent thirst that you realize how potent it was. MORE: 5 Ways to Ruin a Budding Relationship It’s tough for someone to nail down the source of feeling not OK, but they unconsciously latch onto things that will get rid of this feeling, usually through reassurance or trying to make situations come about that they feel will make them happy and finally grant them relief.Maybe it’s reassurance or validation, or maybe just more of the feeling of being OK.Guys don’t know exactly what it is, but suddenly their instincts are telling them to get away.

It’s so quiet and subtle you may not even realize it’s there.When asked, many guys will say they don’t know why they were suddenly turned off … During the first few dates with a new guy, your vibe is typically pretty laid-back and easygoing.You want to explore the possibilities with him and see what he’s all about.Rather than trying to learn who he is and what he’s about, you look at his behavior and the things he says as a means to measure how he feels about you…and whether you’re getting closer or further away from your goal of having a relationship with him.From that point forward, it’s not easygoing and natural, it’s her measuring if she is getting closer or further from her goal. Everyone recognizes when someone has an agenda, it’s just something our intuition picks up on and it immediately puts us off.

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