She recalls a case of one who regaled her with an e-missive that went on paragraph after paragraph.“He threw up against the wall hoping that something would stick,” she says.
But I wasn’t the same single guy I was the last time I lived here. And I wanted to meet people, so I turned to internet dating as a way to meet eligible women.
“What I would honestly tell you, flat out, is that just because don’t care,” says Wendy.
“Just because someone looks cool and has a good sense of humor doesn’t mean that a woman who clearly states, “I’m looking for marriage and children” is going to respond well to you … ’ doesn’t cut it, but something like, ‘I can’t believe you met Ryan Gosling!
Here’s a surprise: Some women just look at the pictures!
Men are often accused of focusing exclusively on the physical, but I soon realized there are plenty of women who do the same.
A professional photo is a good idea, too — and if you do it right, you can wind up with one shot for your dating profile and one for your Linked In page. If we can’t pick you out of your bowling team lineup or every picture features you in floppy hats and big sunglasses, you’re unlikely to draw much attention.