You are not accountable to him if you want to see a male friend or past lover. The sex itself may be more lusty because it’s clandestine.Having sex in the married couple’s bed, for example, becomes a daring thrill, full of lust and passion, in a way not possible otherwise. The need to be secretive, sneak around undiscovered, grabbing quick sexual encounters on the fly, can be a huge turn-on in comparison to a dinner date with a single man who calls on Wednesday night for Friday. The logic goes something like this: if he has a wife at home and is cheating with me, I know he’s not cheating on me. Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ . Valerie Golden Mate poaching is a robust phenomenon, and it is here to stay.We know they're wrong for us, they'll never treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated, and instead of running for the hills, we jump on for the ride. No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't know how to assert himself.Whether we want to admit it or not, we want excitement in our relationships. This can be a difficult thing to admit as a strong, independent female, but it is, nonetheless, true.Is it because a man who is already taken is more experienced? Is he more desirable because another woman has pre-screened him (while still single men are unknown commodities)?For some, the food on someone else’s plate always looks tastier.
For these women, feeling superior has less to do with the man in question and how desirable he is, and more to do with being more powerful than and superior to the other woman. For starters, he cheated on her with you, so how could you ever know he wouldn’t treat you the same way? Mate poachers, whether they want commitment or just sex, have a range of tactics, from dissing the current partner (e.g., “You deserve someone better . We may not like the tactics, but sometimes they work and successfully (e.g., Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt seem to have stood the test of time, at least as far as we can see). You just might discover a competitive streak you never knew you had. D., is the author of God forbid a single woman wants to do anything else other than look for a permanent relationship that leads to monogamy, marriage, children and ideally a big house in the suburbs. Of course you will be in for some judgment if you purposefully pursue a man that you know made a commitment to another family.If she can bring him down to earth, it would be the ultimate accomplishment. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Women don't want to be with someone who is all calm seas and clear skies; we crave constant challenges in everything we do.When it comes to love, we choose the guy who satisfies that desire.Yet, when it comes down to it, women consistently chase after the “bad boy," the guy who is narcissistic, self-absorbed and avoids all forms of intimacy as if they were infectious diseases. While women claim to want “the nice guy,” we're genetically hard-wired to want to procreate with the alpha male because he has stronger sperm.