Pareto’s principle or the 80/20 rule is often used in business and economics to determine efficiency and to make decisions.You have probably heard or read it used in terms of wealth distribution ( 20% of the population owns 80% or the wealth or 20% or the population pays 80% of collected taxes – not the same 20% by the way) .
(Occasionally, my native Southern accent makes its way into my word pronunciation.
### I really like that Christian says to just go out there with your good attitude, your heart open and chat up every man you meet with reckless abandon. But what Christian fails to mention here is that when you put yourself wholeheartedly out there and treat every man like he’s wonderful and available you may attract the attention of some serious psychos who can be difficult to shake (I will be starting my “stalker” novel this month) or enjoy the wrath of an insecure girlfriend or jealous wife or two (not a fun experience to be reamed up the butt by a woman who feels you are a threat because you treated “her man” (I hate this term because it Implies ownership – might indicate the real problem right there) like he was single.) I agree with Christian that you should be comfortable, open and confident when talking to men – all men, single or otherwise.
But I invite you to keep that radar of intuition up while you are enjoying some good conversations.
The point is…talk to the men you meet AS IF they’re single, open, interesting, and wonderful.
And then don’t worry about the ones who don’t turn out to actually BE single, open, interesting, available, and wonderful.
Here is where Christian sort of offers some useful advice for once.